Miss Diors Response to "Fall Back" Commentary

Ahhh where do I start...Ok @ the end of the day, were all going to have different views on the topic of relationships...This definitely won't be the only issue I'll blog about but its something I’ll throw in every now & then due to my loveeeeee of people's responses. So please keep them coming!!! Also, people let's please remember majority of these blogs are GENERAL statements. Some issues will be based on experience but not everything we post is based on our lives.


Now let me first say to Anonymous #1, you have pointed out some excellent points in your response!! However, is it safe to say your totally okay with your significant other giving up everything they were doing prior to you for the sake of your relationship? So now their life is to completely revolve around yours?? Now please don’t get me wrong on this matter because yes I do think sacrifices are to be made by both parties but I do not think everything should be given up either. I would think a man would be comfortable knowing their woman can not only take care of home first, but also knows how to maintain a full life of their own as well. Please explain to me why you feel “I believe if you're in a situation where you feel like "you cant breath without the person" its impossible for "your normal life to remain AS IS." I find it very possible maintaining an “AS IS” life while also maintaining a relationship. Your significant other shouldn't expect you to alter your life once they step into your world.


Anonymous #2, communication is definitely key in any relationship but smothering is NOT!!! Now if your cool with your loved one up your ass all the time, well hey to each its own but I think a relationship would function 1000% better if each person was able to continue doing their normal routine plus maintaining a personal relationship. If your boo has to be hitched up underneath you 24/7, then there seems to be some severe insecurities issues within your relationship that should be looked into & honey, that blame gets placed ON YOU!! What kind of relationship do you have when your day consist of knowing your boo’s every move, thought, bathroom break, hair salon appt……I mean I could go on but I’m sure you see where I’m going with this. Its not about throwing yourself into a bad situation, its about knowing when to give the relationship a little breathing space.







Devotedly Yours....Miss Dior!

"Torn between two......Mr. Swagger Vs. Mr. Lover, Lover"

"LOL, LOL….My girlfriend may hate me when she see's this but I thought this conversation was too good not to share. You see, she's totally TORN between two dudes and isn't sure which road to take. Let me give you the rundown before I tell you what I felt she should do.


Stacha has been seeing this dude for a little over a year . It was definitely a no strings attached type of relationship both were totally cool with because they knew when it was THEIR time together, it was all about them & everyone & everything did not matter @ the time. Their time together was always fun, he always manages to keep a smile on her face, whatever she wanted he made sure she had it……Did I fail to mention the SEX GAME was off the hook??????? Mind blowing sex to the point she literally woke up with a smile the next morning and dreaded the fact she had to go into work the next morning but one last quickie before he had to go in made all of that go away real quick, LOL. However, Stacha meets Mr. Swagger as she refers to him (Don't ask, hahahahaha) and as a few months of dating time passes, she realizes he has lots of potential of becoming her Mr. Right & totally forgets about Mr. Lover, Lover!!! Now here's the thing, Mr. Lover, Lover isn't pressed about anything or even feels offended but the reduction of the phone calls & missed dates because it was known from jump both parties are doing them but starts to wonder WTF happened to MY PRETTY GIRL??? Stacha feels like she should give Mr. Swagger an opportunity to see how far they can go butttttttttttttttttttt she doesn't want to totally give up on her Mr. Lover, Lover either. Two months have passed since their last phone call & guess who's ringing off her phone today……Yes you've guessed Mr. Lover Man but this time Stacha is considering giving in to her bad girl ways & setting up some time for her lover man.


My advice to Stacha was, if you feel you have a better chance in establishing the relationship your actually looking for with Mr. Swagger and your basically getting the same things from him that Mr. Lover, Lover can offer on a level your looking for, let go of Mr. Lover, Lover & move forward with Swagger Man!!! Even though she has a great time with Lover Man, she knows its only a temporary fix and not what she truly wants for her future.


Do you guys feel since she's not Mr. Swagger's OFFICIAL GIRL, should she continue what she has with Lover Man or put her focus on trying to establish that relationship she's been yearning for with Swagger Man??





Devotedly Yours.......Miss Dior!

KarrieB's Responses to Commentary on PCDs

*click here to read the PCD entry if you have not done so already*

Before I start... Let me make it clear that the women of RTRW are not Male Bashing Bitches (MBBs)... We LOVE Men ... Especially OURS... We also just love to entertain and have open dialougue about ANY given topic ... Hence the birth of RTRW.

Dear Anonymous,
You make a great point. My "LOL's" do throw him off a bit. Resulting in him thinking he still has a chance, right? Mixed signals though? Don't think so. Don't men have pride? Like if I have yet to say "OK, let's fuck..." Why are you stll asking? Like for the sake of your ego alone, wouldn't you stop asking? Don't men have theeee biggest egos?

Second, I never referenced the frequency of the communications. Trust, every few months definitely doesn't constitute PCD status.

And NO damnit ... I'm soooo not over my nigga! LOL! And I don't move backwards! (Well not anymore at least)... Fuck that!
And let's not get it fucked up ... There's some DCB's (I'm sure you've guessed - dick chasing bitches) out there too ... Probably more DCBs than PCDs.....lol.

Indie Baby - You too make a great point here... But to cut him off completely? I mean, I do consider him a homeboy and although he's a bit persistent with that, our conversations usually encompass more than just that (his girl problems, his career, and regular shit). I just wrote that part out since it was relevant to our topic. He's also been there for me (no, not sexually) when I was going through something. I think what I'm trying to say here is I see the potential, matter fact, we do have a pretty decent friendship. He just decides to try his luck every now and then I guess in hopes of getting it again (typical nigga)... Maybe I just need to blatantly say it like "HOMIE .... CHILLOUT ... WE AINT FUCKIN EVER, EVER, EVER AGAIN!!!" Because you're right. Men can't read between the lines ... Some are so narrow minded ... So sad...lmao.

THANKS BOO... See ? This is what we do ... Help eachother out.

Thanks for the commentary people... Until next time ... KarrieB.