Left Out in The Cold...

Cries of doing more for those children left to be raised by our city's poor & corrupt foster care system continue to fall on deaf ears. Once these wards of the state as their referred to turn the legal age of 18, they are allowed to leave the system on their own or opt to stay until they turn 21 and then their put out into this cruel & cold world with nothing...literally!

As parents who help their children start off on the right foot into adulthood, shouldn't the state be held responsible to ensure these individuals have access to jobs, a shelter & maybe some start up cash? In most cases these children become wards of the state when there's no one else willing to take care of them. So since the state picked up that responsibility, maybe there should be some kind of aid for those who turn 18 without a place to go, job, or anything to their name at least to ensure they do not become a ward of the state again but this time through our judicial system. Housing options are available to these youths. However, they have to be found eligible, smh.

Do you think the state is right in releasing these new found adults into an unfamiliar charter without any form of guidance or that the state has done their share & its now time for these individuals to fend for themselves?

Miss Dior!



Ahhhhh....Frankie literally leaves us all speechless!!!


Internet Dating

Sooooooooooooooo….I was MIA for a minute but now I’M BACK! Lord have its mercy...I have some old things that ended and some new things that have begun! However, we are just going to ease into it because I need to get my thoughts and story together in writing first before I give it to ya. I must say I have missed all you crazy readers. Now let’s just start with a simple question.

We humans depend on technology and computers for errrrrrrrthang, even finding love. So when all hope is lost offline, some people go online. Giving into the hype and curiosity of internet dating, completely ignoring the fact that 90% of the people are pedophiles, scammers, ex-cons, liars... you name it…it’s out there in cyber space. Do you think that a person can find REAL love with someone they met over the internet? Do you think people who use this alternative method of dating are losers or desperate?



And The Saga Continues....

Soooo as I grabbed this morning's AM newspaper, I noticed the cover is yet again plastered with Chris & Rihanna. Now there are rumors the two are recording a duet & of course, the world is mad. Oprah is begging Rihanna to leave Chris, people who aren't even familiar with the situation or the individuals are stating how she's not taking any one's advice, just a pure mess. Why are we so mad she's not listening to anyone?? This non-sense does not involve the world!! If these two individuals feel they want to work pass this as a couple, let them do what they want. It has no bearing on us, the economy, nothing. My personal feelings on this whole madness....She is crazy for going back...If that was something she really wanted, maybe a break would've been the first step & some couples counseling. What people need to understand is the choice is HERS at the end of the day and we should just respect that.

What do you guys think about this whole situation? Should they work it out? Is the media making this worst than what it is? Share your views with us!!!

Miss Dior ;)


Pure Madness!!!!

I've always felt the religious values outlined for Islamic women were absolutely ridiculous. This article definitely confirms the foolishness dictated by Islamic men as to what a woman can and can not do. How dumb is this??? 75 years of age & this is the punishment you deem fit for an elderly woman asking for assistance, SMGDH!!!

Let me know your thoughts after reading this nonsense.


Miss Dior ;)


mia -- breif pause.

Hello OUR loves :)

First, we would like to apologize for the lack of writing....2009 has been a great year for us fabulous ladies and with that blessing, came a hectic schedule both professionally and personally. However, we are BIZZZACK to provide you guys with the lovely stories, discussion, random ish you've grown to love!!! Please accept our apologies for we TRULY love all you guys and have missed everyone terribly.

Sincerly & Devotedly Yours,

Karrie, Maia, Miss Dior & Indie


i only cheated because...

...you weren't around.
I loathe cliche topics and although this falls under the cliche umbrella, something happened to a friend that I really didn't expect and that triggered this topic.
I want to know from the guys, why do you think women cheat... And I believe every female has cheated before, so I want the ladies to tell me what makes them cheat or why they cheated in the past.

Feel free to post anonymously if you are currently cheating and plan to tell me why and don't want your mate to accidentally read this - lol.

I firmly believe that women cheat for emotional reasons - most of the time we lack something in our current relationship and end up seeking it elsewhere. Men on the other hand cheat to soothe their ego or their dicks. It's almost some like men have this innate characteristic that requires them to cheat... lol, whatever.


rita hayworth said...

“We are all tied to our destiny and there is no way we can liberate ourselves.”

What do you think?


What's Your Most Memorable...

Valentines Day????

Miss Dior



"When A Scorned Woman Heals"

This is a Repost of an email I received from my boy Esquire. This is definitely a great read and I felt it should be shared with our blog fam!!


She looks in the mirror at beauty
She don't just give up the booty
She is more than a woman

She's a queen
She's the backbone to her race
She does everything with grace

When a scorned woman heals
She is not the skin she's in
It doesn't matter if she's plump or thin
She let's her assets shine (Skill)

She's a mother, friend, sister, or
Lover with no problem with strings
She's not caught up with little things

When a scorned woman heals
She let's her Diva status show
She is a showstopper
Turning away all the bed hoppers

She's smart and strong
She's too fierce for any man's arm
She's the power couple all on her own

When a scorned woman heals
She begins with a kneel
She worships her god
She holds her faith
Knowing the man in the black race is becoming extinct

She's let real love in
She's not judging your sin
She's loving you genuine
Pay close attention to see if your scorned woman has healed

Miss Dior!!


The Man Who Has Always Been There

As I get older, I increasingly reflect on my life. I reflect on the past, the present, the people, the good, the bad and the ugly. I reflect on the changes I have made in my life and within myself. I reflect on all the struggles I have been through and continue to go through. I often find myself so amazed of the strength I posses. So many times I have been able to pull myself out of such crazy situations while being able to maintain my sanity. As Donnie McClurkin sang, "We fall down but we get up." This is so true. I have turned my negatives into something positive instead of letting them completely breakdown my soul. Now, everyday I walk with an "S" on my chest. That "S" does not only stand for Superwoman but it stands for "Strength".

Now almost 30, I have realized that the source of all my strength and superpowers come from the one person what had always had my back. It comes from the man who has always loved me unconditionally and carried me on his back when I fell down. He was there when I cried. He was there celebrating with me during the best times of my life. I'm not perfect and I have done things in my life that he wasn't too happy about. Fortunately, his love for me has no boundaries . He just continued to love and guide me. He was there even when I felt he wasn't. Sometimes I felt like I was talking to myself because I thought he wasn't listening...just like a man, right..hahaha. He has been the only man that has NEVER done me wrong. All the wrong I thought he did to me, turned out to be right for me.

I have built a closer relationship with this man. It took a very long time for me to really recognized and feel his presence in my life. There will never be the right words or enough words to express my gratitude to him.

So I will simply say, "Thank You God", for always being by my side. If you're walking everyday of your life with an "S" on your chest...just simply comment on this blog with two words.."Thank You"