1.08.2009

exit only?

Hey people... Hope everyone's New Year was as splendid as mine. No, I didn't party hard and wake up naked and drunk, I spent it with the some of the most important people in my life.

I wanted to post a topic on women and cheating, but coincidentally it seems as if that's the current topic of our surrounding blogamilies (blog+familes), so I'll save that for a later date. RTRW strives to stand out, not to blend in.

Anywho, in the past, I had a near death experience while attempting to have anal sex. Now many people are totally opposed to this and deem their asshole as an "Exit Only" place... But there are others who love it. I'm not gonna get too detailed, as this is not Anal Sex 101, but they say you cum more from anal than vaginal sex and it's just a different feeling altogether.


-shrugs-


What is it for you? Love it or loathe it? And for the those who do love it and/or are successful at it, please provide some insight.

Whatever your preference is, just be sure to wrap it up ... we have an STD open-forum type post coming soon. You'd be surprised how many people are a bit uneducated (with regards to familiarity) when it comes to STD's.

This topic might be too raunchy for some, should that be the case, please go to the upper right hand corner of this window & click on that 'x'...
Feel free to post anonymously!

Karrie.

20 comments:

Beautifully.Conjured.Up said...

I don't care for it, and I guess it comes from personal feelings and academic.

I don't like anything going up my anus...it feels weird to me.

Then there is the academic knowledge. Coming from a health care background, I know what's back there and just the thought of knowing all of those capilaries being affected, the waste material that lingers at the apex...sorry for the visual, but that's not a pretty sight or feeling.

...naw, I'll pass...

DOAYM said...

I've never put my peter back there.

Idk, I guess I've never had the desire to but a shorty asked me about it one time like recently and I gave her one of them "hellll nawlzz" but she told me she got some sort of pleasure back there, it just wouldn't be from me.

Anonymous said...

i get fucked in my ass all the time, i like it more than my pussy. i cum so much from it, it's crazy. as long as you got the right man and lube ur good to go. my man loves it too, not only doing it to me, but taking it himself. nsty i know, but i love him for who he is

i'm posting anonymous b/c i dont want nobody to think me and my man are crazy freaks lol

Peggy M. said...

I heard about this spray they sell in 'toy' stores... it supposedly numbs the pain and keeps the pleasure...

hmmm...

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The FEATURE™ said...

Blogger is sucking it right now...this is my second attempt at posting.

On the topic of anal sex, why are we even discussing it? That's the "poop shoot". No one should be sticking anything back there, it's just wrong. I'm not homophobic (well maybe just a little), but men or women should not be sticking things in their ass.

For me, I would never practice anal sex, it's just not me. The way I say it may be a slight skewed, but it works for my rationale. I have anal sex with a girl and I then begin to like it and we get even freakier with it, what's to stop her from wanting to stick something in my ass? Also, what if I end up liking it and only want to do it to her in her ass? If she desires to say no, I'm gonna have to find a new ass. You see where this is going?

Men and women are prone to seek out gratification at whatever the cost. It's the "happy gene" that makes us do it, sometimes without cognitive recognition that we're doing it. Dat nuh mek it fi mi, boss!!! That's not for me to try or even put into my thought process, so don't ask and don't try, it's not happening!

RAEthoven said...

peggy, i just saw that spray the other day i was thought it was pretty funny. well i really thought it was a joke but the lady said it was real.

never tried it. dont really want to either. and my man let me know off top that it wasnt happenin anyway .

Vegas International said...

I prefer the front hole rather than the back hole. But every once in a while you might want to do something different or feeling a little on the extra freaky side.

Back in they i used to back door b/c i didnt run red lights, so this was a compromise detour! The most recent times i have done it, i just wanted to see if they would let me :-/ .... i guess im that guy!! lol

Vegas International said...

I prefer the front hole rather than the back hole. But every once in a while you might want to do something different or feeling a little on the extra freaky side.

Back in they i used to back door b/c i didnt run red lights, so this was a compromise detour! The most recent times i have done it, i just wanted to see if they would let me :-/ .... i guess im that guy!! lol

**trucee writer** said...

well, i must say its VERY painful without any type of lube or jelly or whatever it is these days lol

first time i had sex the dude decided that would be something he'd do without sharing it with the team (i.e. ME!!!) smfh...

only tried it one time after that...and nowadays when my man slips and aims in the wrong direction, we just look at each other and laugh and say in unison..."one day" lmao

Adina said...

Loathe it...Even though I've heard the pleasure from it is GREAT, I'm NOT fond of pain at all...Will I ever cave in??? Nahhhhh...I'm good!!

Fab4 said...

Lol @ the damn spray..hahaha. Well, anal sex will have to be a no go for me. I will stick to the hole the penis is naturally suppose to go in. I don't care how many sprays, lubricants, pills, oils, jelly or whatever they invent to numb the pain. My backdoor will remain and EXIT ONLY. However,to each is own.

INDIE

NightFall914 said...

Did it once.....the female surprised as to how down she was for it. It wasn't a big deal.Like ok I've done it and dont really have any interest in doing it again.

Jillian said...

attempted it 1 time many moons ago...and the memory of the discomfort aka pain has prevented me from trying it again..

one of my former good friends said her and her man did it all the time and she loved it...and this was one person i NEVER thought would do anything like that..

so i've heard both sides...i wouldn't rule it out if my man and i wanted to explore..

lol @ spray

Boss Lady said...

Attempted it only once, eons ago, when I was in highschool. Never Again. Atleast not during Volleyball Playoffs Season. LoL. No lie, I was walking crooked for a week. Coach thought I pulled a hamstring or something. Not a good look.

Anonymous said...

Don't sleep on the spray. I tried it and it shole do work! spray & lube = a good time

A Beautifulstruggle said...

two thumbs up...need i say more;)

Anonymous said...

I've always been curious about the pleasure I would get from trying something different. This is not something that I want to explore... for now anyway. My hubby is not into it at all. He's heard the hype from his boys but doesn't get down like that.

Eventually curiosity will probably give me a "near death experience" but for now I'm gonna have to stick with Indie when I say... EXIT ONLY

Pennerad said...

what exactly do you mean by 'near death experience'???? i'm FASCINATED. LOL.

Anonymous said...

I think its probably one of the most painful ordeals I've ever experienced. I can't really imagine someone actually enjoying it. I've been told that the more you do it the better it gets, however that doesn't sounds appealing either. Some things are never meant to "loosen" up. Gross. But to each his own I suppose.

Anonymous said...

TRIED IT TWICE THE ANAL EASE DID JUSTICE T.O.T.A..L.L...Y *impeccable laughter*, NOT QUITE MY CUP OF TEA THOUGH...

~Queen