11.12.2008

Pussy Chasin' Dudes [PCDs]


Don't they just piss you the HELL off? Especially in a time when your pussy need not be chased?


Trust me, I know how you feel.


My question is: At what point does the PCD realize he isn't getting the anticipated ... uhhh, no, wrong word. He isn't getting the [insert word here (I can't figure it out right now, lol)] pussy and may never EVER get it again. Yes, people. You've dated this PCD before. And guess what? When you were diggin' him ... you sure ain't think he was a PCD. But now, the tables have turned and he is salivating on something that was once semi his.


Here's a perfectly annoying conversation.

*names have not been disclosed to maintain the confidentiality of this person as well as his pride*

Him: :(
KB: What's wrong?
Him: I'm in Jury Duty and you take way too long to respond to me!
KB: Ughhh ... I hate Jury Duty! (totally ignoring the latter part of his response)
Him: So what's up? When can we play house like we used to ...
KB: LOL
Him: What's so funny?
KB: You! Wanting to play house ... haha
Him: So has it really been over a year since we last had sex?
KB: Shit, yeah it has. Damn time flies.
Him: Well he must be keeping you happy.... ;)
KB: LOL ... I'd have to agree with that.
Him: Is he better than me? (the infamous question)
KB: Brb
Him: K
Him: :(
KB: Wtf is wrong with you now?! Lol
Him: You didn't come back soon enough. So when can I see you?
KB: Idk ... I mean we can get drinks or something soon. Doesn't matter.
Him: Ok, I can bring a bottle of whatever you like over ... ;)
KB: LOL, I was thinking more like a Bar... you're so damn fresh.

2 hours later

Him: So .... ? What do you say?
KB: About?
Him: OMG, lol
KB: No, seriously ... about what?
Him: Me, you ... drinks, your place?
KB: Ohhhh ... that.
KB: Nooooo. We can hit up a pub or something.
Him: Ok cool. I guess I gotta settle for public love huh? Well I appreciate your friendship so whatever we do is fine. We can talk about who you're boo'd up with...lol. I'm happy you're happy though, that's what matters.
KB: Blah, blah, blah ... lol!

Ok, so the conversation continued for a while but that was the bulk of the annoying part. See how many attempts were made?

Back to my original question -- at what point do the PCDs realize it's over for them ...?
*KarrieB*

7 comments:

Anonymous said...

ohhh please shorty!

Dont confuse pussy chasing with niggas who are waiting for the pussy. If you would say im not fucking with you and not laugh at it or say your not comfortable, how dude supposed to know you officially off the market? He aint chasing if he hits you every few months to see whats good, maybe you over your nigga and need some of that good ol shyt! A nigga dont go hard, he aint confident and he is too passive, a nigga hits your every now and then he chasing pussy! Just because he is tryin to make a layup, he thinks the park is open!

Fab4 said...

Well, she did tell him in the conversation that she was happy with her current man. I’m going to play both sides right now though. Should she even be entertaining this guy by going out with him, even if for drinks at a pub if she already knows what his intentions are? Some would say NO. By doing this, you are just giving him mixed signals. So is it really right for you to call him a PCD.

However, if they have not had sex in a year and the conversation went as such:

Him: Well he must be keeping you happy.... ;)
KB: LOL ... I'd have to agree with that.

My other side will be: WTF, you don’t know how to take a hint and read between the lines. It’s been a year…what the hell you bothering me for?


So ummmmmmmmmmmmm…KB you need to rethink that going out with him and giving him the “public love” as he puts it because obviously its more than a friendship he wants. Based on the fact that you two were fucking in the past and he is still trying to get at you like that, he needs to be CUT OFF! Meaning you need to give him straight talk, he gets no public love and no friendship. Give his ass the BOOT! That’s if you really don’t want to be bothered with the annoying conversations.

Apparently, he does not know how to read between the lines. And let’s face it, studies show that most guys don’t. I understand that you may still be trying to maintain a friendship with him but for what? What’s the point? He’s your past and obviously is only out for the pussy. Give him the duces and cut off all communication with him.

*INDIE*

**trucee writer** said...

mm mmm mmmm...interesting topic!
let me give my response first, as i have been constantly annoyed with the subliminal "can i get some ass again" convo. there definitely are guys like this out there, i just take it differently, more as a compliment...that all this time we havent spoken, you still havent found anyone better than me :) lol

as far as her giving him the ok for a night out, i dont see the problem. they obviously had a friendship on some level before if he agreed to go on the "night out" without breaking on her that he wasnt getting any ass. after she has said she's taken care of by her man and completely avoids anything taking place in her crib, then any assumption made from him after that...is HIS bad.

guys have hard time taking hints...im guessing bc of ego or just the fact that they're not trying to take no for an answer...which i hate. then when i get rude after trying to let guys down nicely...im a bitch!?
WHATEVER lol...i tried the nice way, if you dont get it then oh well!

so guys, if you dont get immediate interest in return when the first hint, or even direct comment is made...maybe you should let it go. females know before they even go on a first date with a man what they want to do to him, with him and if they want to do anything at all...so what makes you think that when you're freely offering the dick and we dont jump at the chance, that we even want the "old school/thorwback" dick again...

things that make you go hmmmm lol

Fab4 said...

I must reply to God's Gift's quote "I just take it differently, more as a compliment...that all this time we havent spoken, you still havent found anyone better than me".

All I got to say to that one is...OWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWW...*2 snaps*...hahahaha.

That's a great way of looking at it. I love the confidence in that statement.

Well, different strokes for different folks because I am one to rarely keep a friendship with an ex-lover if I have a man at home that satisfies me.

However, if KB and Mr. Man have a genuine friendship and he will respect the fact that she has a man at home, then let him buy you a drank at the pub...lol. Just tell him to put a holt on all the extra sex talk because it tickles your nerves a little.

*INDIE*

Fab4 said...

Yes, 2 snaps for God's Gift ... forreal. The next time I have a PCD after me ... I'ma just snap in a circle 2 TIMES! Oooow! hahahaa.

K muthafuckin B ... lol.

Vegas International said...

I was told this blog had some heat, but yall not really sayin much!! I do agree with ananynous (apparently dudes) comment ...

I dont think that dude is chasing pussy, he prob sent that chick and like 15 others the same text message and her ass was the one one to reply that time, so he went in!

and that goes for you too Gods Gift .. dont get gassed at a mass text, lol

You dont like a dude or dont want him trying to fuck, dont talk to him dont reply, cuz every conversation is one stop closer to fuckin whether you want to admit it or not!

Fab4 said...

Vegas International,

Your entitled to your own opinion about this blog. However, for a blog that doesn't have any heat, you sure are are taking the time to continuoulsy post your two sense. Which is fine because thats what we are looking for...feedback, whether good or bad. This is why this blog was created. What may be interesting to us and others, may not be intersting to you. There are people who may relate to alot of our life experinces in general.

So apparently there is something about our NEWLY created blog that has sparked an interest in you boo-boo.

Besides, there's more to come. WE'VE ONLY JUST BEGUN!!!!!!!! *singing*.

*INDIE*