What is a man to do in a situation like this?
Let me take this time out and introduce myself. You can call me M & M. No, not because I melt in females mouth 99 percent of the time (yea not everyone is perfect - so I did take 1 percent out) but I do supply all the nuts in one package. I may, every now and then, make an appearance on RTRW.
I have a fucking dilemma here and I do need your advice. Now u can be raw and uncut with the response. As I said I have nuts and can take the truth well. This situation may seem familiar, as I know men go through this shit all the time.
First Shorty:
Been with one shorty for a few years now. At the beginning, everything was cool. Sex, food, sex, sleep, sex, and did I mention more sex. What the fuck more can a nigga ask for in a situation like that. Feed me, fuck me and let me sleep and I don't complain at all. Don't get me wrong, we do all that other relationship shit too. I'll say about for the past year now, the sex has decreased, me sleeping is becoming a major issue and at time food turns out to be an argument at time on what we should eat. Shits annoying at times. Everything little thing is an issue.
Second Shorty:
Every man's dream girl. Cooks, cleans, fucks the shit outta of you, doesn't hesitate to suck a dick and when I say suck a dick, she tries to suck ya balls out ya dick like a straw. Just thinking about that shit is making me stand at attention. Yea I know it's probably just lust there but I actually dismiss that theory. If I do chill with this female, it's not about sex all the time. She asks questions like: where do you see yourself in 5 years? Down to earth, not materialistic about things. Shit I don't have to get a haircut for weeks and this female does not complain about u fucking up my appearance when u go out like that.
Problem is, I'm not a type of person to hurt anyone feelings but when I do talk to friends about my situation, they almost always say do not sacrifice ya happiness for someone just because you don't want to hurt them..
Oh ... did I mention I was engaged to the first shorty?
What do you think I should do? Let me know!
M & M
2 comments:
Ok Mr. M&M, first I would say to cut back on shorty #2 until you've made up your mind on how you want to handle your situation with shorty #1. Hanging with shorty could definitely impact your judgment when deciding on what to do with shorty #1.
Secondly, if you felt you've exhausted all avenues on mending this seemingly broken down relationship, moving on seems to be the best option for both parties. You should really sit your fiancé down & discuss what issues you’re having with the relationship & express how you’re feeling regardless of it being negative....She'll never know unless you say!! Lay everything on the table & see what happens from there....
Lastly, your friends are absolutely right when they say don't sacrifice your happiness to spare someone's feelings...Your happiness is what matters the most & if you’re not happy, the relationship will continue on the way it is now......MISERABLE!! Do what makes YOU & ONLY YOU happy.
I hope everything works out for the best!!!
Miss Dior!
That is so true...I was browsing and I really like this blog....I'm having problems in my relationship and I think this is happening to me..Some men expect everything to be perfect. What are YOU doing to make your relationship work? spending time with #2 could be the problem ( ever thought of that?) I doubt it. How you have so much time or make the time to spend??? Because that is taking away from some you chose to marry. I say YOU because nobody put a gun to your head ( at least I hope not lol)...Holla @ me let me know what you decide Thanks for sharing
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