I'm sure we've all experienced or even been the main player in the game I like to call "Can I Breathe Without You", LOL don't ask....Women (& some men due to the fact that I've encountered some who play this game better than we do) tend to throw themselves into their relationships without ever coming up for air. I totally get how good it feels to have that someone who makes your world that much brighter, but you also have to be able to "Fall Back" and put your energy into something else not related to your love interest!!
Ladies, is it really hard to maintain your normal activities while having a male in your life???? When you notice your girls nights have become little to nonexistent, those weekend alone shopping trips have now become a team effort & those waiting to exhale, thank god I'm alone days after a hard day work are no more...You've just lost the game!!! We have to learn that once we've found that special someone, our normal life is to remain "AS IS" & that person is just to be added into our regularly scheduled program!! If you sit back & look hard into the relationship, you'll notice your mate has fit you in to their normal regimen without even thinking twice of altering it...So ladies, let's work on not allowing ourselves to become consumed with our relationships and let's focus on learning “How to Fall Back” ;)
Ciao for now!!
Devotedly Yours...."Miss Dior"!
IT’S (OFFICIALLY) OVER! Lori Harvey & Damson Idris SPLIT After 1 Year
Together
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After weeks of speculation, Lori Harvey and Damson Idris have officially
called it quits. The twosome dated for approximately a year, and the
relationship ...
5 months ago
4 comments:
I feel you on this one. It's hard in the beginning when you find that special someone to not lose a little bit of yourself because you want to be around that person all the time. However, after a while, you begin to lose yourself. Ladies, like Heather Headley sang "I Need Some Me Time". After a while, if your man is apart of your routine, it does get a bit stale. Now..what happens when things get stale? It's no good anymore and you throw it away. POOF BE GONE goes your relationship because your man or woman is rocking your effing nerves all the damn time...sucking up all your air...got you breathing like a fish out of water.
*INDIE*
I think your blog means well, but unfortunately, you're way off base. I understand that lust and excitement someone might feel the first few weeks of meeting a person you really like, but for you to say "someone who makes your world that much brighter" (to me) that means this relationship is far past the lusting feeling of its inception and gone into a full fledged reciprocated relationship; and if you think you are going to get to that point without any sacrifices your delirious! I believe if you're in a situation where you feel like "you cant breath without the person" its impossible for "your normal life to remain AS IS." Now I also believe that sacrfices have to be made on both parts for you to reach this stage, so for you to say that there is no sacrifices made by the other party you are either delusional about your "GREAT" relationship, or not seeing or giving credit to the other party for their sacrifices because they may not be the same ones you have made (which is usually the case). There is a difference between no sacrifice and not getting the sacrifice you think you should get; so you are either buggin for throwing yourself into a bad situation {and you can't blame anyone but yourself for that} or you're non appreciative of the sacrifices the other party has made, and that is where yall go wrong in your relationships.
Hmmm
i would have to agree with anonymous1, he/she makes complete sense. don't get me wrong it was meant well, but i believe there is a party here who is giving more than the other and when that happens that's when things get sour and someone gets fed up and starts complainig about losing themselves. what is the saying everyone preaches "communication is key"; so stop complaining and throwing yourselves into bad situations and start putting the blame where it belongs.....yourself.
Dear Anonymous 1 & 2,
"Thank you so much for all the feedback because I'm truly loving it!! Please note this post was a GENERAL statement and has no true bearing on any of our relationships. Trust, we have no issues within our happy homes ;)....With that said, I'll be back with a response for those asses right after these scheduled announcements!!!!
As always,
Devotedly Yours, Miss Dior!
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